There are a lot of unique celebrities, but no one stands out like Keanu Reeves. He’s an action movie star, a thoughtful person, and also incredibly kind. While some of Keanu Reeves’s movies have made over $100 million, he sounds completely relatable in every interview that he does.

For years, fans wondered who Keanu Reeves was dating and hoped he had found love. Now that fans know about Keanu Reeves and his girlfriend Alexandra Grant, they want to know if Reeves will get married and what the relationship is like. In this article, we’ll take a look at why fans don’t see much of Keanu Reeves and Alexandra Grant, along with what they have shared about their romance.

Why Keanu Reeves And His Girlfriend Alexandra Grant Keep Their Relationship Private

Fans of Keanu Reeves who have followed his career for several decades now would love to see more photos of him and his girlfriend Alexandra Grant, who is an amazing artist. Whenever the couple has appeared on red carpets together, which doesn’t happen often, they look like they’re having fun.

There seems to be one main reason the pair stays out of the spotlight: Keanu Reevesprefers to keep his personal life to himself. Even though he’s a huge celebrity, he has chosen to maintain a boundary between his personal and professional lives. It’s also possible that because Alexandra Grant is anartist who lives a regular life away from Hollywood, Reeves feels that it makes sense to keep their romance quiet.

Keanu Reeves has been protective of his life for a long time now. Some celebrities don’t like when reporters ask about their love lives but are fine talking about hobbies, interests, and how they spend their free time. While Reeves is always friendly and warm in interviews, he doesn’t seem to want to share much about who he is off camera. Of course, this just makes him even more fascinating.

While the couple could definitely attend many movie premieres or go to fancy parties, that doesn’t seem to be their style. In 2008, Reeves Reeves talked about his personal life in an interview. He said:

“I lead a very quiet, normal… My private life is a boring disaster, but work is good.”

Also in 2008, Keanu Reeves was interviewed by Parade and he said that he would rather talk about his career than anything else.

He said:

“I always find it surreal that complete strangers come up and ask me personal questions. I don’t mind speaking about work, but when the talk turns to ‘Who are you?’ and ‘What do you do off-screen?’ I’m like, ‘Get out of here.’ I’ve been in situations where people have felt they had a relationship with me or something and I didn’t even know who they were.”

Reeves and Grant keep to themselves so much that people weren’t even aware of their love story for quite a long time. In 2020, Page Six interviewed Jennifer Tilly, who is friends with Grant, and she talked about their romance. She said, “It’s really astonishing to me how in the last five months, all of a sudden, she goes to an event with him and everybody goes insane, like, ‘It’s his new girlfriend,’ because she had gone to a lot of events with him. It’s just suddenly surfaced that he’s been dating her for several years.”

Keanu Reeves’s Most Notable Action Roles

Officer Jack Traven in Speed (1994)
Neo in The Matrix franchise (1999-2021)
John Wick in John Wick (2014-present)

Tilly added:

“I saw him at her last art opening, and he’s not, like, wanting the spotlight, because he’s a really low-key guy, too, and I think why everybody went crazy is that they’re sort of the perfect couple. I think everybody wishes that they had something like that. It’s not a razzle dazzle Hollywood romance.”

In fact, when people found out about this relationship, fans thought Alexandra Grant was Helen Mirren. According to Entertainment Tonight, Mirren said, “That was very flattering on me, you know, because she’s obviously lovely.”

What Have Keanu Reeves And His Girlfriend Alexandra Grant Said About Each Other?

Although Keanu Reeves and Alexandra Grant don’t attend Hollywood events together very often, they have talked about each other in a few interviews. They sound like they are a great match. From their comments, it’s clear that they genuinely enjoy spending with each other, and they don’t want to prove anything to anyone.

In March 2023, People asked Reeves questions about “the last time” he did certain things, from seeing the sunrise to dancing. When asked about his “last moment of bliss,” he mentioned Grant and said, “A couple of days ago with my honey. We were in bed. We were connected. We were smiling and laughing and giggling. Feeling great. It was just really nice to be together.”

It’s adorable to hear what Reeves has to say about his girlfriend, and Grant has also said sweet things about the relationship. In September 2023, according to People, Grant went to the Los Angeles Beverly Arts Icon Awards and said:

“The good news about falling in love as an adult is that I had built my own career by the time that my relationship had begun. I feel very confident in the relationship on the red carpet. I feel confident on it alone. It’s interdependent and independent in the best ways.”

Alexandra Grant’s Work (According to Alexandragrant.com)

co-founded X Artists’ Books
started the grantLOVE project which supports non-profits in the art world
makes art with “text and language”

Even though fans would love to see Keanu Reeves and his girlfriend Alexandra Grant out and about more, since they are so charming, they seem to be exactly where they want to be.