“For the first time in my life, I’m with someone who truly sees me.”

In many ways, Love on the Spectrum plays out like every modern romance: There are awkward first dates, laughs, tears, and heartbreak, along with some seriously magical moments of connection. But ultimately, the Emmy Award–winning series that follows dating hopefuls in the neurodivergent community is much more than just a love story. Love on the Spectrum chronicles what happens when people are brave and bold enough to step outside their comfort zones to find someone who understands them — and in the process learn even more about themselves.

Overflowing with love, connection, and even a surprise hit song, Season 3 featured a group of new and familiar faces — each with their own approach to navigating the dating world. While the seven-episode season may be over, Abbey, David, Adan, Dani, James, Connor, Tanner, Madison, and Pari have much more to share. Below, find out what your favorite daters are up to today, which couples are still together, and who’s flying solo.

Abbey and David

STATUS: STILL TOGETHER
Hearts soared to new heights during the season finale, when Abbey and David celebrated their three-year anniversary. What started as a family celebration at a California winery ended in one of the most romantic moments ever captured on camera: Abbey serenading David with an original song.

“It’s called ‘Boyfriend Forever,’ Abbey tells Tudum. “I wrote this song last summer, and I wanted to do a tribute to David, because he is the best boyfriend, and I never want to lose him. My favorite part of the song is [when] I say at the beginning, ‘You’re the lion to my lioness, the milk to my Chardonnay,’ because he drinks milk and I like wine and we both LOVE lions.”

Abbey says that when she’s singing, it’s just easier to communicate her thoughts — and when it comes to David, she simply can’t express in words how much he means to her. For his part, David says “Boyfriend Forever” is “the most beautiful song [he’s] ever heard,” and says he felt her words “from the bottom of [his] heart.”

The serenade was deeply moving, and Abbey describes the moment as “one of the most romantic things I’ve ever done in my life.” As for what lies ahead for the couple, the two have no plans of tying the knot anytime soon. “We are not ready to get married,” Abbey says, “But I wanted him to know that he is the best.”

“I feel confident,” David says about his experience this season. “I gathered my courage, and I care for others like [I care] for Abbey. She’s the most important person in my life.”

The pair will ring in their four-year anniversary in summer 2025, which they plan to celebrate by spending a night in the San Diego Safari Park. Additional travel plans include a trip to Italy and the Bahamas. As far as Abbey’s musical masterpiece is concerned? Watch this space. “We made a music video too, and it will be on my YouTube later in April.”

Adan

STATUS: SINGLE
The dissolution of Adan and Dani’s relationship was one of the more heart-wrenching aspects of Season 3. For Adan, sticking to his faith — and his boundaries — felt essential, even though it meant he had to say goodbye.

“Many of us on the spectrum have had difficult lives,” he tells Tudum. “We have been ridiculed and made fun of, we don’t have many friends, and we have gotten picked on and beaten up. For me, believing in God has been my strength, and my religious beliefs are what help me make sense of the pain that I’ve experienced in my life. My values have been shaped by my life and life experience.”

Today, Adan is happy that he remained true to himself, and hopes to serve as an example to others who might have trouble articulating their boundaries. Now that he’s single, Adan says he’s focusing on trying to finish his semester at Cal State Fullerton, and is also working on building his personal brand and exploring his potential in the entertainment industry. Still, all of his experiences and developments come with the bittersweet reality of moving on. Though Dani wasn’t his first date, she was his first girlfriend, and that experience came with plenty of valuable lessons.

“I have learned that love is magical and beautiful,” he says. “I am confident that I will meet other girls that I can date and build a strong and honest relationship with. I do want to find love again. It happened once, it will happen again.”

Dani

STATUS: IN A RELATIONSHIP
In the final moments of Season 3, we learn that Dani has found a new beau — but it’s impossible to truly move forward without processing the past. Before she gets into her promising new romance, Dani wants to set the record straight about her and Adan’s communication breakdown.

“I didn’t break up with Adan,” she tells Tudum. “He broke up with me. Or at least, that’s how it felt. Because for a year and a half, he let me believe we were on the same page, that we were building something real together. And then, just like that, he pulled the rug out from under me.”

Dani says during their last date, she felt blindsided by the fact that Adan wanted “to take a step backward — no kissing, no intimacy, nothing.” She adds that she was always clear about her intentions, and she thought Adan was on the same page.

“It wasn’t just a breakup, I felt it was a betrayal,” she says. “He never gave me a chance to prepare for it, never hinted that his feelings had changed. Instead, he let me walk blindly into heartbreak, like a deer in the headlights, while he had already made up his mind.”

Dani says the two are no longer friends as a result — they don’t even talk. The breakup changed Dani in ways she wasn’t prepared for, making her think that love was no longer in the cards. But then, the tides changed.

“Like a perfectly timed plot twist in one of my own animated stories, someone completely unexpected walked into my life,” Dani shares. She met her current beau, Henry, at the Huntington Park Police Department when her company, DaniMation, received a donation for autism awareness. Henry, a detective, presented the check, and though they shared an instant connection, Dani was still reeling from her breakup. Over the next month, they kept in touch, and Henry eventually worked up the courage to ask her out. Their first date was different — Henry was thoughtful, attentive, and made her feel valued. As their relationship grew, Dani discovered that Henry, despite not sharing her creative background, supported her work and encouraged her dreams.

“For the first time in my life, I’m with someone who truly sees me,” Dani says, “Not just as an animator, not just as an advocate; not just as someone on the spectrum, but as Dani. And that? That’s the best feeling in the world.”

Connor

STATUS: IN A RELATIONSHIP
From the moment Connor first laid eyes on Georgie, he knew she was something special. “I felt sparks,” he tells Tudum. “I immediately felt weak in the knees and uneasy, and I quickly tried to calm down. I really loved the way she did her hair for our first date. It reminded me of a Viking shield-maiden’s braids.”

The deep connection they formed during filming has only grown in the months since. “I am happy to report we are still seeing each other,” he adds.

Georgie even joined him recently for his birthday dinner, but that’s not all the excitement in his life: Though he still hasn’t broken ground on Falcon Perch, the cottage his family is planning to build for him to live in, they have blueprints, and plan to meet with a builder soon. Ultimately, he says, he’s making a lot of leaps and strides, which is part of the reason he insisted to Love on the Spectrum creator Cian O’Clery that he exit his first date with Georgie to the song “Cats in the Cradle” by Harry Chapin.

“I felt like I made great progress in my quest for love, and that song talks about a boy becoming a man,” he says. “It felt right for the setting we were in.”

Madison

STATUS: IN A RELATIONSHIP
The blossoming romance between Madison, doll collector and jewelry-designing extraordinaire, and her country boy, Tyler, is still going strong. From their very first date, Madison was wowed by Tyler’s charm — and his ability to name the release date of any country song she could name.

“I got butterflies and felt sparks upon meeting him,” she tells Tudum. “When I noticed his cowboy hat and boots, I knew there would be a common interest in country music.” She also says that her relationship to physical affection has completely changed since Tyler came into her life — though it may have been a bit endearingly awkward for her parents to witness firsthand.

The pair celebrated their six-month anniversary in January — and from the sounds of it, their romance has been a whirlwind of romantic activity.

“For my birthday in September, Tyler took me out to the Cheesecake Factory and shopping, and he got me a new American Girl doll,” she says. “For Tyler’s birthday in February, we went to Busch Gardens. Tyler took me to my very first rodeo, and to the Disney store, Coca-Cola store, M&M store and the American Girl store for Christmas because he knew those were all my favorite things. At Halloween, we did trick-or-treat at our church rec center, and Tyler DJ’d the event, which will become a tradition. At Christmas, Tyler and I had our first Christmas performance together as a couple, and we sang all our favorite Christmas duets together, and performed for both our families. For Valentine’s Day, Tyler surprised me and took me to the Cheesecake Factory.”

With this kind of royal treatment, it’s no wonder that Madison moved to Plant City, Florida, to be closer to her Prince Charming.

Tanner

STATUS: SINGLE
While Tanner didn’t make any long-term romantic connections in Season 3, his signature smile hasn’t wavered, thanks to the endless supply of love in his life. Love on the Spectrum helped Tanner make “a lot of really good lady friends,” who he says are “very cute and beautiful.” He’s still working at the Shepherd Hotel, which he absolutely loves, and says he plans to keep working there until he retires. And, of course, he’s got all his favorite people — including one particularly special person we got to meet in Season 3.

“My sister Midge is the best!” Tanner tells Tudum. “She is one of my very best friends in the world, and she helps me when I have hard days. We also laugh and have so much fun together! She talks me through things when I’m confused, and we talk about dating too. I ask her questions about things I don’t know.”

Tanner says his friends and roommates are also always there for him — they’ve got more experience dating, and give good advice. With or without romantic love, he says, he knows one thing to be true: “I’m a lucky guy!” Plus, now Tanner has a new friend to depend on, his longtime hero, Jack Black. The actor recently crashed Tanner’s appearance on The Kelly Clarkson Show, which he described as the “best day of [his] life.”

James

STATUS: IN A RELATIONSHIP
From speed to blind dates, James was relentless in his pursuit of love this season. “I enjoyed being able to meet many new people via those methods,” he tells Tudum. “But I certainly was nervous about meeting such a great many people in a short duration, and I also worried that I would not have sufficient time to properly develop a connection with any of the other participants.”

His efforts weren’t in vain, as James connected with a special someone. “Shelley is simply wonderful and amazing,” James says. During the filming of Season 3, the two met online, and she attended James’ backyard birthday party, where they shared their first kiss. Today, he says, their romance is thriving.

“I love her very much, since she and I have much in common, but we also bring out the best in each other and inspire each other to grow and improve as people,” he says. “I am so very glad that she and I have met!”

In addition to fostering his new romance, James continues to be active on social media, using his platform to advocate for autism awareness. “I share my beliefs because I wish to inspire other people to take action and be kind and compassionate to others because I am of sufficient age to remember a time before society understood neurodiversity,” he says. “I have been bullied and marginalized in the past, and I wish to prevent other people from suffering from that fate.”

Pari

STATUS: IN A RELATIONSHIP
Pari had one specific goal in mind before joining Love on the Spectrum: Find a “Princess Charming” who was kind, accepting, and would have “lots of fun T-ventures” with her (referring to her undying love for the Massachusets Bay Transit Authority, commonly called the T). To say Pari succeeded in her quest is an understatement, as she and Tina are still happily together today.

“[Tina] really is the Amtrak to my Commuter Rail,” Pari tells Tudum. “She just gets me. We both share the same energy, quirkiness, and enthusiasm, and I just love that so much! We make each other laugh and giggle a lot. We really enjoy hanging out together. We are both graduating from college in May and hope to attend each other’s graduations.”

Pari also shares that her mom — who is doing well and currently on a clinical trial to treat her cancer — is very supportive of her first queer relationship. “My mom thinks Tina is great and funny and loves how good of a match she is for me,” Pari says. “She likes how Tina will sometimes text her with photos and silly things. She enjoys Tina and wants to get to know her and her family even more.”

Today, Pari is focused on her schoolwork — but as always, she’s making plenty of time to ride the rails. “Some of my recent T rides I’ve taken lately have been solo on the Red Line, which is the T line I use the most often. I have also been with other rail friends and have gotten horn shows from many of the trains.”

Of course, she’s not just riding solo now — Pari says Tina has joined her on a recent Green Line trip to check out the Amtrak Downeaster, proving their relationship is certainly on the right track.

Watch all three seasons of Love on the Spectrum on Netflix now.