We love him! In fact, Keanu Reeves has become an international obsession. Between his Hollywood comeback after The Matrix to all of his secretly filmed good-deeds, Keanu has unintentionally ingratiated himself with us. Luckily, we’ll see more of him now that he and Carrie-Anne Moss are set to return to The Matrix franchise. Not to mention Keanu’s roles in Toy Story and the John Wick flicks. But an aspect of his life has remained a mystery… his relationships.

Rumors have circulated about him for years. Was he with Sandra Bullock or Winona Ryder, or wasn’t he? Has he been married this whole time? Honestly, we can’t be sure. But several reputable sources (found below) have helped us with a list that may shed light on the matter. Without further ado, here are 7 women Keanu Reves has dated and 13 we think he has.

20Keanu Dated Sandra Bullock After Being Stuck On That Speeding Bus Together

Yes, Keanu did date his Speed co-star, Sandra Bullock. According to Popsugar, both of them had major crushes on each other but neither knew how the other felt. Things didn’t solidify between them until 1993. But their romantic connection was all too brief. However, their friendship has lasted through it all. Of course, it did, who could have anything against Keanu?

19We Think: Keanu And Carrie-Anne Had The Ultimate Blockbuster Chemistry

Rumors of Keanu and Carrie-Anne Moss’ relationship has circulated for years. But its never been confirmed. Carrie-Anne, who seldom does press, has remained silent in order to keep the Neo/Trinity illusion alive. After the original Matrix trilogy concluded, Carrie-Anne got married and took a break from acting to have children. But since she and Keanu are now returning for Matrix 4, we’re sure the unsubstantiated romance rumors will return.

18We Think: All Signs Point To “Yes” On China Chow, But Still No Confirmation

According to The Daily Mail, Keanu Reeves was photographed alongside China Chow during a getaway in the French Riviera. This was a few years ago, but it did look like there was a romantic connection between the two of them. While on the beach, China even went au natural in front of Keanu. Later, the pair were spotted at a restaurant in Italy together. There’s no confirmation fo romance but all signs point to “yes”.

17Going For The Full Three-Years With Jill Schoelen

One of Keanu’s very few confirmed relationships was with his Babes in Toyland costar, Jill Schoelen. The pair dated for about three years following their electric chemistry on set. However, Jill ended things with Keanu and eventually moved on to date Brad Pitt. She and Pitt even got engaged but she broke things off with him in 1989. Given that nobody knows who Jill is anymore, maybe she should’ve stayed with one of them.

16We Think: Winona Ryder And Keanu Were Basically Married

Technically Keanu and Winona have never dated despite a ton of rumors and a mutual attraction. However, we’re not sure whether or not to believe it. Regardless, according to Popsugar, the pair may actually be married. While they were shooting Dracula Keanu and Winona had to do a wedding scene that a real priest orchestrated. This means that it could very well be legally binding.

15Lost In Love With Sofia Coppola

Sophia Coppola is best known for being Francis Ford Coppola’s daughter, but she’s also the acclaimed director behind Lost In Translation and The Bling Ring. Additionally, she’s known for being Keanu Reeves’ girlfriend for a year or so. According to eOnline, the pair met on her father’s Dracula set and dated until the end of 1992. From there, Copolla went on to marry and then divorce director Spike Jonze.

14Reeves And Jennifer Syme’s Romance Ended In Heartbreaking Tragedy

Another confirmed relationship that Jeanu’s had is with actor Jennifer Syme. An awful event ended Keanu’s relationship with Syme who eventually met her own end in a car accident in 2000. It’s all very tragic stuff.

13We Think: Keanu And Alexandra Grant Seem Suspiciously Close

Keanu and Alexandra Grant don’t look like they’d be together but they may have been. While we can’t confirm their relationship, we do know that Keanu has been very touchy with the older woman in public. That’s notable since he usually keeps his hands to himself. Still, neither of them have confirmed anything beyond their deep friendship and business relationship.

12Claire Forlani Met Joe Black But Dated Neo

You probably know Claire Forlani best from her role opposite Brad Pitt and Sir Anthony Hopkins in Meet Joe Black. Other than that, she may be best known for dating Keanu from 2004 until about 2006. According to People, the ever private Keanu laughed off rumors that they were together, but we all know that they were absolutely a couple very much in love.

11We Think: Parker Posey Was All Over Him

According to News.com.au, Keanu was rumored to have had a fling with Lost In Space star Parker Posey back in 2009. Neither actor confirmed their status nor did the rumors go anywhere, but it’s still quite curious. Apparently, the two were spotted at the Chateau Marmont hotel getting very cozy with one another. Parker, in particular, was all over him.

10We Think: Charlize Theron Was Canoodling With Keanu

If only Keanu dated Charlize Theron. We think they’d make a pretty amazing couple. Unfortunately, we’re just left with rumors of a potential fling between them. According to People, the Sweet November costars were getting pretty touchy with one another back in 2009. Rumors even circulated about them dating for an entire year. But we just don’t know for sure.

9We Think: Trinny Woodall Had A Motorcycle Fling

It certainly seems like Keanu Reeves is a perpetual bachelor. Never the less, a few years back, he may have dated a TV presenter from Britain. According to Popsugar, he was spotted cruising around LA on his motorcycle with Trinny Woodall. Later, they were seen at a romantic restaurant together. However, the couple was never spotted in each other’s company again.

8Lynn Collins Managed To Steal Keanu’s Heart… For About 7 Months

Actor Lynn Collins did manage to steal Keanu’s heart for several months in 2006 after working together on The Lake House. According to Popsugar, the pair seemed very happy but then randomly called it quits. It was likely that Lynn was Keanu’s first partner after the loss of Jennifer Syme. So, perhaps that had something to do with it.

7We Think: Photo Evidence Of Hallie Meyers-Shyer And Keanu

According to Who Dated Who, Keanu was spotted with Hallie Meyers-Shyer in 2005. For those who don’t know, Meyers-Shyer is best known for her role in What Women Want. While she and Keanu were only photographed together once or twice, they were caught locking lips when they thought nobody was looking. Still, we can’t officially confirm this one.

6We Think: In Fact, We’re Pretty Sure About Keanu And Diane Keaton

So, according to Popsugar, this one is a big rumor. Keanu and Diane Keaton played lovers in Something’s Got To Give, where he apparently struck up a romance with the actor who is 20 years his senior. At the time, Reeves was dating Lynn Collins. it’s rumored that he left Lynn to be with Keaton. However, if this relationship existed, it didn’t last long.

5We Think: Keanu And Kelli Garner Were Co-Stars With Chemistry

Actor Kelli Garner has dated a couple of her costars and has been in committed relationships since making Thumbsucker with Keanu. But, according to Who Dated Who, it’s rumored that she briefly had a fling with Neo himself. There are photos of Keanu with a woman that looks like Kelli getting pretty cozy. But, other than that, we have no proof that anything happened between them.

4We Think: Martha Higareda Looks Longingly At The One

After The Matrix, Keanu made quite a few lackluster movies before having a comeback with the John Wick films. During that period he filmed Street Kings alongside Martha Higareda. According to Popsugar, the pair of attractive thespians struck up a romance. However, beyond their on-screen chemistry, there’s absolutely no proof to substantiate this rumor.

3We Think: Cameron Diaz Was ALL Over Him

Yeah, there’s no doubt that Cameron Diaz was all over Keanu after they shot Feeling Minnesota together in 2009. There are numerous photos of them getting pretty touchy-feely with one another. However, there isn’t much else for us to make the relationship claims that several media outlets have about them. But we can wish, can’t we?

2On And Off With Amanda De Cadenet For 6 Years

According to Just Jared, Keanu Reeves did have a relationship with wild child Amanda De Cadenet. However, their relationship was constantly on and then off again for about 6 years in total. De Cadenet was so special to Keanu that he was going to break the habit of keeping his relationships secret. However, he didn’t officially and the relationship didn’t last.

1We Think: This Thing With Jaime Clayton Is Still Unfolding

Just recently, Keanu had been spotted numerous times with Sense 8 star Jaime Clayton. Neither he nor Clayton has confirmed or denied the relationship rumors swirling around them. But we have seen a number of photos that suggest something is going on. Cheatsheet has even claimed that these two are definitely together. We guess we’ll just wait and see how this unfolds…